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Question - (30 September 2010) 33 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2015)A femaleage 41-50,anonymouswrites:

I think my doctor likes me. I recognize I like him. He gives me a hug.. And also our access time last choose an hour. Just how would i understand for sure?

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A reader, anonymous, write (18 January 2015):

if he"s obtainable why not? i had actually a physician who had a like on me, he would certainly stared at me during visits, touch my eight every time the could and also finally one day he said me how much the really want me. I just panicked since I knew he to be married. I changed doctor and forget about him. It to be tough reason i really preferred him but married men are the end of the question for me.

A reader, anonymous, to write (5 February 2012):

question:I think my physician likes me. I recognize I like him. He provides me a hug.. And also our access time last prefer an hour. Exactly how would i understand for sure?

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Whew! Sounds like you"re in a little bit of a pickle here. So, girlfriend really prefer this physician a lot. You"re smitten, you have actually a crush, girlfriend desire him. I have the right to dig it! physicians are professionals in the business of helping human being feel good. His charisma is natural, he fits his part--he is a physician ya understand ;)

Now, that hugs you. The spends an awful lengthy time with you. That doesn"t mean he"s interested in you. My doctor spends a lengthy time through me. I"m a pains in the ass patient who asks a many questions. This is just how it is! i think what you should think about are the honest ramifications that a medical professional dating your patient. He"s no going to litter away a yes, really cushy career, possibly damage his chances of paying earlier 200,000 + is educational expenses (if castle aren"t paid off yet) destroying his personal life and also reputation for part attractive woman.

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EVEN IF the LIKES YA ;) So, if you desire to recognize for sure...do no go to him any more. Kind of an official letter that you"re questioning to be eliminated as his patient. Have actually him photocopy it and also put that in your file. Questioning him for a referral to a brand-new doctor. Allow him know that you"re changing doctors due to the fact that you feeling uncomfortable approximately him. It"s NOTHING the he has actually done, but if he"d really prefer to recognize for him come feel totally free to contact you after a perfect time has actually passed...and you"d be happy to define over coffee.

If that calls--then yes, he"s right into you. If not...forgetta bout" em and also find part one that can day you legitimate :)

Best that luck!

PS a lot of doctors perform not wear their rings in ~ work due to the fact that of the consistent hand washing! for this reason no ring doesn"t median single.....


A femalereader, eyeswideopen  +, write (8 October 2010):

Well girlfriend are fifty percent way there. All you have to do now is divorce her husband.


A reader, anonymous, write (8 October 2010):

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OMG! I uncovered out he is no married yet divorced!


A reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010):

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To the last poster your right. It"s most most likely infautation blended with fantasy. ~ all.. He"s been an extremely compasstionate v my feelings. I simply can"t stop counting the work till I see him.. UGH!


Afemale reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010):

To the OP entirely understand exactly how you feel, sometimes those crush/infatuation feelings are sooo strong they feel prefer love, I have actually been there excellent that through my doc yet in reality, i knew very tiny about him to have any real true love feelings for him. What around all the bad things? The stuff the drives his wife round the bend- occasionally it"s better to store these points as fantasy as realising and acting on her feelings deserve to be a let down. He can kiss like a wet fish!!! Haha

use your feelings come motivate you come get far better if that uses to her situation, every the best x


A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2010):

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Ha. Yeah.. I"ll take it my H along.. That would be funny!


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (2 October 2010):

Ha! I"m not sure I would use the native "think" come it, interesting Freudian slip there. There"s not much "think"ing going right into it. An ext like impulsive behavior. An excellent luck v the hormones!


A reader, anonymous, write (2 October 2010):

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Haha! Ok.. I check out your no for a think favor this Tisha!


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, writes (1 October 2010):

And what if the does? I intend you"re no the very first woman who"s had actually the hots for him. I wonder how large a component of his malpractice premium covers sex-related harassment charges?


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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I don"t know? look at I have all these extreme feelings for my Doc.. It"s driving me increase the wall..and I"m very curious to understand if that feels the same way.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, to write (1 October 2010):

And why have an to work in the first place?


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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It finished in a tranquil way. Just both no wanting to take anything further.. The was that!


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (1 October 2010):

And that ended, how?


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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Eyes.. The is no my an initial crush. I"ve had countless over my lifetime. This one captured me off gaurd. The sex-related tension is building an ext and more with each visit. Critical visit the sat next to me.. And also I wanted to skinny over and also kiss him. On numerous occasions while going over clinical stuff.. Ours eyes have locked.. And also I"ve gone into a blank stare.I"m sure he an alert that. Tisha..I had actually one emotionally affair in the past.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (1 October 2010):

Have you had actually much exercise with extramarital affairs?


A femalereader, eyeswideopen  +, write (1 October 2010):

Is this your an initial crush? walk you ever before have one in your schoolgirl years?


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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Ha! Know..I am not seeing him for hormones. He"s my main Doctor. But.. Ns am in peri-meno.. So ns do have actually some hormone issues going on. LOL. Not brand-new on the market. Married.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (1 October 2010):

I dislike to ask, but are you see him for the end of control hormones? :/

Sounds come me prefer you are relatively freshly ago on the market and also perhaps require to emphasis on what is best for you, rather than what is stimulating, if you know what i mean. Rollercoasters are really poor options for a day-to-day commuting vehicle, ya know?


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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Yes.. The does count on his character. And something tells me he has the same sort the feelings because that me.. You deserve to just feel it in the air.. Do you know what i mean? Gosh.. This is driving me best up the wall!


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, to write (1 October 2010):

I guess: v if he"s a faithful guy, he"ll great you well and also give friend a goodbye hug and then leave it be. It relies on his character, doesn"t it?

If he"s no a faithful guy, then maybe he"d get your number and also find a means to sneak off through you somewhere.

It boils under to his take on being a faithful spouse.


A reader, anonymous, to write (1 October 2010):

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I was thinking all night about this and also I think it may be because that the finest that I find a brand-new Doctor. I hate to give him up.. However my feelings are far to intense.. And they won"t go away. Must I just be increase front and honest with him around this? If ns am just how do you think he can react?


A reader, anonymous, write (30 September 2010):

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Not really looking for drama.. Rather looking to it is in true to my feelings. Ns think I will wait and also see if he renders a move.. It practically looked like it was heading that method the other day.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (30 September 2010):

Ah, climate you are searching for drama. Okay, well, then, by every means, walk for it. Simply be ready for a "no" and for amused sideways looks native his office staff. And maybe you need to wait till he it s okay to the bottom that the "issues" so you don"t have to start everywhere with another doctor!


A reader, anonymous, to write (30 September 2010):

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Well.. Tisha I have the right to feel the attraction together the air is thick during our visits. He started the hugs... And also I look front to them. While I know he"s a complete of compassion as a Doc.. I can sense there is more going on right here in both of our minds. Am I in search of something from him.. Sure am.. If the feeling is mutual. I recognize it have to sound awful.. But I have actually it negative for him. 3


A femalereader, person12345  +, writes (30 September 2010):

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Hmmm it"s daunting to say, since he might get in a most trouble for making a move if you were to get uncomfortable or report the or something. I favor Tisha"s advice, around saying you require to change doctors due to the fact that you choose him. Climate make her move.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, write (30 September 2010):

My medical professional is developed like a wrestler, every muscles and also strong. I obtain a hug too, I"m a nice person, he"s a pretty person. He"s married, so am I. There"s nothing else there but great wishes.

See more: Who Said That No Two Objects Cannot Occupy The Same Space At The Same Time?

"Does he prefer me?" It sounds so much like the concern that a high institution girl would certainly ask. Room you looking for love or looking for drama?


A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

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Tisha,Not a shrink! and is that available.. NO.. But..yeah I understand that"s not good!!


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, writes (30 September 2010):

Um, if he"s your psychiatrist, he knows precisely what"s walking on in your head.

I an alert you didn"t prize the question about whether he"s obtainable or not. So i assume not. Ns guess you"re just going to have to decide what"s an ext important, your crush on an have not medical professional or your "issues."

Take care!


A reader, anonymous, to write (30 September 2010):

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Well.. The point is, ns don"t desire to lose him together a doc.. He is good.. And also I think he may be the one to figure out my issues. But..lord that is hot in mine book. I sense he feels that to. Ns wore this genuine sexy bra as soon as I observed him yesterday.. I think I gained his attention. LOL


A malereader, The Realist 

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You could always ask that if that would like to go out for a drink or other or for his number so the you deserve to talk to him about it outside of his profession due to the fact that his involvement with a patient deserve to be harmful come his job. You would definitely want to talk to him since you might need to switch medical professionals if you 2 want come date.


A femalereader, Tisha-1  +, to write (30 September 2010):

You would have to not be his patient, i think. Probably say, "I require to adjust doctors together I discover myself attractive to you." climate be sure he has your number and also contact information, go find yourself one more doctor and also wait to watch if he contacts you. If not, girlfriend could try calling him approximately make a date for coffee.

Is this physician actually an available man? Single, no wife, not engaged or otherwise tied down?


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